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Thursday, April 12, 2012

Writers' Block Is Hell!

Why is it that sometimes words flow out of your brain and onto the screen effortlessly, while at other times each syllable comes out screaming in protest as you sit in front of a stark, white monitor, your brain doing a slow idle?

Is it that life interferes with creativity? That’s a big part of writers’ block—at least it is with me. A sick baby…a significant other with an issue that demands more TLC than usual…an adult child with a problem that’s a lot harder to fix than the scraped knee he got on his first fall off a two-wheeler. The possibilities for life intruding are endless and almost impossible to ignore.

Sometimes it’s not life but my story that stalls out. My hero doesn’t want to do what I planned for him, or my heroine comes across as too stupid to live when she reacts to him in a way that pushes along the story line. I try to force the story along until I give up and let it go in a different but maybe not a better direction.

When my writing stalls out, that’s when I (the world’s worst housekeeper) decide my office needs rearranging or my windows suddenly require cleaning. Or maybe I (an indifferent cook at best) conclude that if I succeed in making that cheesecake that requires the use of every small electric appliance and specialty kitchen gadget I own, my writing block will miraculously disappear. (It doesn’t—I just get frustrated when I discover somebody drank the Grand Marnier I was saving just for this recipe.)

So what’s the cure for writers’ block? I can’t turn off life, my story won’t fix itself, and the distractions I create only last a little while and create physical exhaustion to go with the brain inertia I was trying to heal.

Sometimes a brainstorming session with a fellow author/friend helps. It’s amazing how a second, fresh take on a problem makes it somehow become surmountable. Other tricks I’ve used with some success include making a change of venue—that is, moving my writing out of the confines of my office onto the patio or into a quiet, serene park away from home. Before gas went to $4 a gallon, I used to take long, scenic rides in my car, having aimless mental conversations with recalcitrant characters and imagining how they’d react to what I was looking at.

I’ve also done what I’m doing now, LOL: avoiding that ominous, blank monitor syndrome by writing a blog entry. At least it’s a little bit productive—I think!

How do you combat writers’ block? I’m anxious to hear other takes on the subject, before I drive myself crazy. Along with my eternal gratitude, I’ll donate a download, any of my published stories the winner may want, for the comment that works best for me. (Winner to be announced on this blog on May 1, 2012, or whenever I finish LOVERS’ FEUD, whichever comes first.)

Sunday, April 1, 2012

The Lure of Ménage


I don’t know about anyone else out there, but once I started fantasizing about guys, sex and all that, I always imagined there being more than one stud around to make me happy.

It wasn’t that I’d read ménages during my teen years. The raciest I got in high school was Wicked Loving Lies by Rosemary Rogers. Whew. Blew my mind. Then I started to read Kathleen Woodiwiss (absolutely adored Shanna). While very sexy, these stories were tame by the standards of The Story of O, which I was introduced to by my BFF in college.

I wasn’t (and am not) into the punishment for pain scene as shown in O; however, the thought of two or more guys pleasuring me while other guys watched definitely had my blood humming. My fantasies got wilder and wilder.

You’d think I would have started writing ménages from there on out. Unfortunately, I kept hitting a wall about the thought of a woman being able to love two guys at the same time. It wasn’t until SiNN, my last release with Ellora’s Cave, that I got over that hurdle. And thus my career writing ménages was born. J

My second contemporary ménage, Sinfully Wicked, has just released from Ellora’s Cave. It’s even hotter than SiNN.

Here’s the blurb.

Two brothers—one woman—unforgettable passion…

Years before Nikki fell in love with Mitch and Connor, betraying them as only a high school girl could. Now, she’s back and needs their help.

Powerful and commanding, Mitch has never stopped craving Nikki. Connor hungers for her as badly, but isn’t ready to forgive. If she needs some fast cash by working at their gentlemen’s club, she’ll have to audition by stripping for them.

Aroused by their shameless scrutiny, Nikki’s willing to do whatever it takes to be near them again…even being punished in the BDSM room or starring in one of Connor’s erotic films. Mitch won’t have it, unless he and Connor are the ones mounting and enjoying her.

On a sultry weekend, Nikki surrenders to their lust, dominance and exquisite discipline, reawakening their timeless bond and the beginning of forgiveness.

Buy Link (with excerpt): http://www.jasminejade.com/p-9983-sinfully-wicked.aspx

Tina Donahue is an award-winning, bestselling novelist in erotic, paranormal, contemporary and historical romance for Ellora’s Cave, Samhain Publishing and Kensington. Booklist, Publisher’s Weekly, Romantic Times and numerous online sites have praised her work; she has reached finals and/or placed in numerous RWA–sponsored contests. Three of her erotic novels were named finalists in the 2011 EPIC competition. Sensual Stranger, her erotic romance, was chosen Book of the Year 2010 (erotic category) at the French review site, Blue Moon reviews. The Golden Nib Award at Miz Love Loves Books was created specifically for her erotic romance Lush Velvet Nights; and Deep, Dark, Delicious (erotic romance) recently received an Award of Merit in the RWA Holt Medallion competition (2011). Tina is featured in the 2012 Novel & Short Story Writer’s Market. She was the editor of an award–winning Midwestern newspaper and worked in Story Direction for a Hollywood production company.

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*** CONTEST ***

To celebrate the release of Sinfully Wicked, I’m offering a contest. One lucky commenter on this blog will have her choice of one of my following ebooks**:

1. Adored – RWA award-winning; EPIC 2011 Finalist; 4 Stars RT

2. Deep, Dark, Delicious – EPIC 2011 Finalist; Holt Medallion Award of Merit

3. Lush Velvet Nights – EPIC 2011 Finalist; Golden Nib Award

4. In His Arms – SIX 5 Star Reviews; 4 Stars RT

5. Sensual Stranger – 2010 Book of the Year (erotic); 4 Stars RT

6. The Yearning – Top Ten Bestseller

7. Take Me Away - #1 Pick, Miz Love Loves Books

8. Unending Desire – Best Book Rating LASR

** Winner chosen at random. Winner chosen April 5.